The Secret To Finding, Attracting And Keeping The Right Guy...

Many of your female friends have told you that he was a jerk and not worthy of you. Some of your male friends said that you had probably driven him crazy by looking for problems that didn’t exist. Others had explained that he was there for the sex.

These interpretations were unsatisfying, to say the least. You knew deep inside, that the truth was elsewhere. You neither dated a player, nor invented any problems. You even tried to compromise when a problem or a conflict occurred. However, a good advice was hard to come by, so you kept on doing the same mistakes.

While your girlfriends may have had good intentions (they wanted to comfort and encourage you), it is most likely that they did not understand the problem. To understand what you REALLY did wrong, you need to understand how men think in the first place. The truth is that by blaming the situation on the guy, you actually make things worse.

Instead of ignoring the problem and blaming the guy, wouldn't it be better if you knew exactly what you did wrong and how to attract and keep the man you want? Wouldn't it be better if you knew exactly how to communicate and understand men so you won't lose a great opportunity to have your dream man just because you made a mistake or didn’t know how to handle a specific situation?

But I have some good news for you. I know I can help you find your soft spots, identify the real obstacles that stand in your way to a meaningful relationship, and provide you with powerful tools that will help you better understand men, get them to open up, attract the right partner for you and keep him for good. These tools are the result of a documented 12-year research in which I have interviewed hundreds of women and couples worldwide.

This is a research I have started during my academic years and completed when I was already an experienced dating, marriage and relationship consultant.

The 5 Deadly Mistakes Women Make With Men Without EVER Realizing It...

The research I have conducted has helped me uncover several mistakes that many women are making when approaching, dating, communicating or while having a relationship with men. These critical mistakes are mostly self-repetitive and practically kill any chance a woman might have to reach a deep emotional connection with a man.

• Mistake No #1: Being Needy and Insecure With Your Man.

It's very natural to long for being closer to your partner and even more natural to be afraid of losing him. However, when a woman immediately develops an emotional dependency, the other side tends to back away. Bear in mind, that there's a thin line between needing someone and being emotionally dependable while triggering a man's insecurity alert. Men want to be with a woman, who is aware of her value and makes a free and conscious choice to be with him. When you lead a man to believe you are insecure or needy, you immediately become less attractive and practically kill any chance for a relationship. If a woman doesn’t think that she is worthy of a man's love, why would he think that?

• Mistake No #2: Desperately Trying to Please a Man
  

Most women believe that the best and shortest way to a man's heart is becoming exactly what he wants a woman to be. They think that once the man realizes that no other woman is as good to him as they are - he will act rationally and pick them. The problem is that the choices of the heart are often made irrationally. Surprisingly, many men do not tend to choose a woman that will do anything for them, but tend to pick the one that proves to be the most worthy of his efforts.

• Mistake No #3: Leading a Man to Think You Are Not in Control Over Your Feelings and Your Behavior.

The emotional turmoil that accompanies the process of infatuation is a powerful and addictive experience that most women enjoy to be swept away by. However, when a woman shows lack of control over her feelings, especially when she cannot control her reactions to disappointments, anger and insult - most men might give up at that point. Lack of emotional self-control is the opposite of the ideal stability, harmony and security we all wish to find in a good and long-term relationship.

• Mistake No #4: Choosing a Partner Based On Immediate Attraction.
  

While attraction is a prerequisite condition for any healthy relationship, many women rely completely on physical attraction when it comes to choosing their partners. This is a deadly mistake. The most attractive men are usually good looking, funny, self-confidant and experienced - but not necessarily trustful, reliable or ready for a meaningful relationship. Before spending your precious time and emotional resources on a man who has little to no potential to become your full time emotionally involved partner for life, its imperative that you learn how to quickly analyze a man’s relationship potential. Instead of just judging a man by attraction alone, you want to know how to identify the warning signs of a future bad relationship before wasting your emotions on a man that will leave you heartbroken and discouraged.

• Mistake No #5: Staying In a Relationship With an Emotionally Unavailable Man

Hoping that the routine or a new behavior that you might adopt, will make an emotionally unavailable man to suddenly take interest in you, fall in love with you and commit, is one of the deadliest mistakes you want to avoid if your aim is a long-term, healthy and loving relationship. It’s a fact that many men are capable of staying in a long relationship, even when they know it’s not what they wish for. They simply treat the relationship as one of temporary compromise with low self-involvement while waiting for something better to appear. On the other hand, the woman, who is already developed some feelings, continues to deepen her emotional involvement and wastes precious time and energy on a hopeless relationship that has no potential for growth, commitment or love.