Thursday, November 26, 2009

How to Keep a Boyfriend

Steps:
  • Always be confident around him. Guys love girls who are confident in themselves.
  • Cuddle with him. Bury yourself in him. Make his warmth your warmth.
  • Take care of yourself. Don't do things that could compromise the way you look or feel.
  • Take an interest in his friends. They may become your friends.
  • Try having deep conversations with him. If he is a deep thinker he will react properly and find you more interesting instead of thinking you are someone who always talks about the same shallow subjects. Communicate with him; be open to him about anything.
  • Trust him in every way, but only if he has earned your trust. Always be honest with him (and yourself). Never lie to him or keep secrets from him.
  • Support him through good and bad days. Just be there for him in any way you can.
  • Respect him the way you wish to be respected. Don't hurt, abuse, or neglect him in any way.
  • Make time for him and plan activities you will both enjoy.
  • Have your own personal time, separate from him when you pursue your own passions. Don't sacrifice this time or your time with friends for your boyfriend. It will show him that you are interesting and respect yourself.
  • Give, or make, something for him to remember you by.
  • Tell him that you love him, and that he is the only one you want.
  • When saying good bye make sure you kiss him, hug him, and whisper in his ear you love him. Do not, however, behave in a clingy fashion.
Tips:
  • Laugh a lot, but don't be fake. When you laugh, mean it.
  • Be yourself. Don't change after you start going out. He asked you out for you, not for anyone else.
  • If you are happy to be with him, let him know. Smile often and let him know that your smile is all because of him.
  • Still flirt; don't give up just because you think you have him for good.
  • If you become friends with his friends, don't flirt or let them flirt with you. When a guy sees this, it makes him insecure and he worries if one of his friends is giving you dirt on him. If one of his friends has the hots for you, completely ignore them. The boyfriend is not mad at you, but the friend.
  • Very important!-Don't worry about things. If you worry too much he will be under the impression you don't trust him.
Warnings:
  • Don't crowd him, be paranoid, and constantly call or bug him. He may feel smothered by you.
  • Don't be whiny, needy, or overprotective.
  • Don't tell him you don't like his friends. He'll choose them over you.
  • Don't expect him to know what you're feeling. Express yourself.
  • Don't be obsessive.
  • Don't go out with any other boy while you’re in a relationship.
  • Don't be over possessive regarding him. He may not like it.
  • Don't be selfish and self-centered. Think about him also, what he might want, and not just about yourself.
  • Don't be clingy. its a HUGE turn-off
  • Don't tell him your WHOLE life in such a hurry. be some-what mysterious

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